If you are in a relationship with a narcissist, you will have been through a roller-coaster of ups and downs.
At the beginning, everything would have been wonderful. You might have even thought you’d found your soul mate. But after a while, things started to go sour.
This is because after a few weeks, months, or even years, the narcissist will no longer see any value in you. As soon as they realise you are a real human being, and thus flawed, they struggle to see the use of you any more. They’ll start blaming you for things, shouting at you, or even break up with you, leaving you to try and work out what went wrong.
But for many reasons, it is hard to answer the question: “Do narcissists mean to hurt people?”
Do narcissists mean to hurt their partners? – Business Insider